You are
Precious than Diamonds and Pearls
"If memory
serves me correctly, I was wearing a little white tank top and a short black
skirt. I had been raised Orthodox Muslim, so I had never before worn such
revealing clothing while in my father's presence. When we finally arrived, the
chauffer escorted my younger sister, Laila, and me up to my father's suite.
As usual, he was
hiding behind the door waiting to scare us. We exchanged many hugs and kisses
as we could possibly give in one day. My father took a good look at us. Then he
sat me down on his lap and said something that I will never forget.
He looked me
straight in the eyes and said, "Hana, everything
that Allah (PEACE BE UPON HIM) made valuable in the world is covered and hard
to get to. Where do you find diamonds? Deep down in the ground covered and
protected. Where do you find pearls? Deep down at the bottom of the ocean
covered up and protected in a beautiful shell. Where do you find gold? Way down
in the mine, covered over with layers and layers of rock. You've got to work
hard to get to them."
He looked at me with serious eyes. "Your body is
sacred. You're far more precious than diamonds and pearls, and you should be
covered too."
Girl looks 10 times more
beautiful in Hijab
Most important about Hijab is that Allah (peace be
upon him) has ordered to wear Hejab. For detail please see Noble Qur'an (33:59,
24:30, 24:31).
Do you wear a Hijab? Give it a try today.
The pea is a splendid plant. It proudly displays its
strong green Hijab. It protects it from the hot and cold weather and guards it
from insects. Allah (peace be upon him) has blessed the pea with a special
Hijab (Hejab), because without it, the seeds would scatter, dry up and die.
The orange keeps itself within its shiny orange Hejab
to protect its delicious fruit. Otherwise it looses its taste too.
So are the banana, the coconut and the pomegranate.
Each one has an elegant and unique Hijab, which protects it from disease and
destruction.
The jewel of the sea, the pearl, has been given a very
tough and rugged Hijab - oyster shell. It protects it from sea animals and
keeps it sparkling and shining inside.
However, the most beloved of Allah (peace be upon him)
in all His creation is the Muslim Girl who wears the Hejab. She knows it is a
gift from Allah (peace be upon him). It protects her from harm, injury and
mischief. She wears it knowing it gives her dignity, beauty and respect. So
precious she can be that she hides herself beneath her Hijab (Hejab).
Hijab Stories: Flower and Pearl
One day, a brilliantly beautiful and fragrant flower
with attractive colors met a pearl that lives far in the bottom of the sea and
has none of these characteristics. Both got acquainted with each other.
The flower said: "Our family is large; roses and
daisies are members of the family. And there are many other species that are
various and countless; each has a distinctive scent, appearance etc."
Suddenly, a tinge of distress appeared on the flower.
"Nothing accounts for sorrow in your talk; so why are depressed?" The
pearl asked.
"Human beings deal with us carelessly; they
slight us. They don't grow us for our sake but to get pleasure from our
fragrance and beautiful appearance. They throw us on the street or in the
garbage can after we are dispossessed of the most valuable properties;
brilliance and fragrance."
The flower sighed. And then the flower said to the
pearl: "Speak to me about your life! How do you live? How do you feel it?
You are buried in the bottom of the sea."
The pearl answered: "Although I have none of your
distinctive colors and sweet scents, humans think I am precious. They do the
impossible to procure me. They go on long journeys, dive deep in the seas
searching for me. You might be astounded to know that the further I lay, the
more beautiful and brilliant I become.
That's what upraises my value in their thought. I live
in a thick shell isolated in the dark seas. However, I'm happy and proud to be
in a safe zone far from wanton and mischievous hands and still the humans
consider me highly valuable."
Do you know what the flower and the pearl symbolize?
Think, think and think...
You will find that: The flower is the unveiled woman
(who shows her charms) and the pearl is the veiled woman (who conceals her
beauties).
Hejab Stories:
Science Behind the Hijab (Veil)
There are number of health and moral benefits that
wearing the veil (Hijab, Hejab) can provide. The moral duty of wearing the veil
(Hijab, Hejab) in Islam is an often discussed topic among Muslim women.
However, little has been written about scientific reasons that the veil (Hijab,
Hejab) is beneficial for society. There are, in fact, a number of health
benefits that wearing the veil can provide, as well as many behavioral science
studies that suggest that the veil (Hijab, Hejab) is the best attire (clothes)
for women.
Protecting the head is very important from a health
perspective. Results of medical tests show that 40-60% of body heat is lost
through the head, so persons wearing head coverings during cold months are
protected about fifty-percent more than those who do not. Chinese and Muslim
medical texts take this concept even further. In the Hua Di Nei Jing (The
Yellow Emperor's Classic on Internal Medicine), wind is said to cause sudden
changes within the body and shaking, swaying and other movements that
potentially upset the body's equilibrium; thus, creating bad health.
These texts attribute the common cold to wind elements
entering the body and causing the typical symptoms of sneezing and a Runny
nose. In the traditional Islamic medical texts of Al-Jawziyya, we can find
numerous references to the "four elements" of fire, water, air and
earth and how these affect the body in adverse ways. In particular, we are
advised to stay away from drafts and protect our heads in wind, breezes, drafts
and cold weather.
All outdoor workers should wear some sort of head
covering:
For this reason, protecting the head is even more
important in warm weather. V.G. Rocine, a prominent brain research specialist,
has found that brain Phosphorus melts at 108 degrees; a temperature that can be
easily reached if one stays under the hot sun for any length of time without a
head covering. When this happens, irreversible brain damage, memory loss and
loss of some brain functions can result. Although this example is extreme,
Brain damage can still be measured in small degrees from frequent exposure to
and overheating of the head. Bernard Jensen, a naturopath and chiropractor
states that this is because the brain runs on the mineral phosphorus, which is
very affected by heat.
Hygienic Purposes:
All public should wear a veil (Hijab, Hejab) or
head-covering workers serving society to ensure cleanliness and purity. Workers
in a number of professions wear "veils" - nurses, fast food workers,
and deli Counter workers, restaurant workers and servers, doctors, health care
providers and many more. In fact, when we compare the number of workers who
cover their heads to the number who do not, we find that more people probably
cover their heads than do not.
Female Psychological Balance:
Covering the hair can also have a beneficial effect on
the female psyche as well. Studies of women being interviewed for jobs show
that there is a high correlation between what they wear and their perceptions
of how successful they will be in their interviews. There are many more
examples of how what we wear can influence how we act.
Wearing a veil (Hijab, Hejab) can serve to remind
women of their religious duties and behavioral expectations. It can also serve
as a reminder to women that we are not only individuals, but also
representatives and diplomats of our "Ummah."
Hijab for Muslim Men:
Lower your Gaze? (Male Hijab,
"There was a companion of ours in Glasgow who
became ill and was hospitalized. He was admitted for three days and on the
fourth day the attendant nurse said, "Marry me".
He [the brother in Glasgow] asked, "Why? I am a Muslim, you
and I cannot become companions."
She said, "I will become Muslim".
"What's the reason?" it was asked.
She said, "In all my time that I have served in
hospitals, except you, I have never seen a man lower his gaze in front of a
woman. In my life you are the first person who lowers his gaze when seeing a
woman. I come, and you close your eyes. Such great modesty can be taught by
none other than a true religion."
The protection of one's gaze entered Islam in her. She
testified to the Oneness of Allah (peace be upon him) and became a Muslim. They
both got married. By now, the same woman was and is the means of bringing so
many other girls and women into Islam.
In a Hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (saw) is reported as
having said: "And the eyes commit zina (adultery). Their zina is
gazing."
The Prophet Muhammad (saw) commanded Imam Ali (as)
said: "Ali! Do not look once after another, for the first look is for you
(since it happens accidentally) while the second is against you."
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