Story about mother- Muslim Mothers Prayer:
Companion of Prophet Musa (peace be upon him)
in Paradise
Once, while conversing with Almighty Allah (SWT),
Prophet Musa / Moses (pbuh) requested: "O' Lord! I desire to meet the
person, who is to be my companion in Paradise."
Jibril (Gabriel) descended and informed Prophet Musa /
Moses (pbuh) that his companion was to be a butcher who lived in a certain
place. Prophet Musa / Moses (pbuh) set out in search of him and arrived at his
shop, when he noticed a youth, resembling a night watchman, busy selling meat.
When night fell, the youth took some meat and
proceeded towards his house. Prophet Musa / Moses (pbuh) followed him till they
reached there. Prophet Musa / Moses (pbuh) approached the youth and said,
"Would you not like to have a guest?" The youth willingly agreed and
took Prophet Musa / Moses (pbuh) inside.
Prophet Musa / Moses (pbuh) watched the youth
preparing some food. When he had finished, he brought down a large basket from
the upper storey. Bringing out an old and wizened woman from inside it, he
washed her and then proceeded to feed her with his own hands. When the youth
was about to carry the basket back to its original place, Prophet Musa / Moses
(pbuh) noticed the old woman's lips move as she mumbled something incomprehensible.
The youth then brought food for Prophet Musa / Moses
(pbuh) and both of them ate their dinner. Prophet Musa / Moses (pbuh) inquired,
"What is your relation with this old woman?"
The youth replied, "She is my mother and since my
financial state does not allow me to purchase a slave-girl for her, I myself
strive to serve and look after her."
Prophet Musa / Moses (pbuh) questioned further,
"What did your mother mumble before you took her upstairs?"
The youth responded, "Whenever I wash her and
feed her, my mother prays: May Allah (SWT) forgive you and place you in the
company and in the rank of Prophet Musa / Moses (pbuh) in Paradise."
Hearing this, Prophet Musa / Moses (pbuh) said,
"O' Youth! I give you glad tidings; Allah (SWT) has accepted your Muslim
Mothers Prayers and Jibril (Gabriel) has informed me that you shall be my
companion in Paradise!"
In the tribe of Bani Israel, there lived a pious person
by the name of Jareeh, who used to engage himself in Allah's (SWT) worship, in
his monastery. One day, his mother approached him while he was busy in prayer
and, as a result, he did not respond to her. She approached him for a second
time, but again, Jareeh did not answer to his mother.
When this happened for the third time, she became
angry and cursed him saying, "I pray to Allah (SWT) that He does not help
you!"
The next day a prostitute came up to his monastery and
giving birth to a child there, declared: "This is Jareeh's child whom I
have given birth to."
This created uproar among the people, who thought:
"The very person, who used to rebuke us for fornication, has committed it
himself." The king ordered him to be sent to the gallows.
When Jareeh's mother came to know of this, she began
beating her face in distress whereupon he said to her, "Keep quiet, for it
is due to your curse that I find myself in this predicament."
The people asked him, "O' Jareeh! How can we know
that you speak the truth?"
Jareeh told them to bring the child to him. When the
child was brought, he prayed and then questioned the child, "Who is your
father?" The child, with divine power and permission, said, "My
father is such and such a shepherd belonging to such and such a tribe."
This incident saved Jareeh's life after which he vowed
never to separate from his mother and to serve her throughout her life.
The only poison was in your mind -----------
A long time ago in China, a girl named Li-Li got
married and went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short
time, Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.
Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was
angered by many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized
Li-Li constantly.
Days passed days, and weeks passed weeks. Li-Li and
her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting. But what made the
situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li
had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish.
All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing
Li-Li's poor husband great distress.
Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law's bad
temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it.
Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang,
who sold herbs. She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some
poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all. Mr. Huang thought
for a while, and finally said, Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, but
you must listen to me and obey what I tell you. Li-Li said, "Yes, Mr.
Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do."
Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a
few minutes with a package of herbs.
He told Li-Li, "You can't use a quick acting
poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to
become suspicious. Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will
slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal
and put a little of these herbs in her serving. Now, in order to make sure that
nobody suspects you when she dies, you must be very careful to act very
friendly towards her. Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her
like a queen."
Li-Li was so happy. She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried
home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.
Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other
day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She
remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled
her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.
After six months had passed, the whole household had changed.
Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much
that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an
argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much
kinder and easier to get along with.
The mother-in-law's attitude toward Li-Li changed, and
she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and
relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in-law one could ever find. Li-Li
and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and
daughter. Li-Li's husband was very happy to see what was happening.
One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his
help again. She said, "Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison
from killing my mother-in-law! She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love
her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave
her."
Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. "Li-Li,
there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave
you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and
your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which
you gave to her."
‘People will never forget how you made them feel’
My mother used to
ask me: "What is the most important part of the body?"
Through the years
I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct answer. When I was
younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said,
"My ears, Mother."
Mother said,
"No Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask
you again soon."
Several years
passed before mother asked me again. Since making my first attempt, I had
contemplated the correct answer. So this time I told her, "Mother, sight
is very important to everybody, so it must be our eyes."
Mother looked at
me and told me, "You are learning fast, but the answer is not correct
because there are many people who are blind."
Stumped again, I
continued my quest for knowledge. Over the years, Mother asked me a couple more
times and always her answer was, "No, but you are getting smarter every
year, my child."
Then last year, my
grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I
remember that especially because it was only the second time I saw my father
cry. My Mother looked at me when it was our turn to say our final good-bye to
grandpa.
Mother asked me,
"Do you know the most important body part yet, my dear son?"
I was shocked when
she asked me this now. I always thought this was a game between her and me.
Mother saw the confusion on my face and told me, "This question is very
important. It shows that you have really lived in your life. For every body
part you gave me in the past, I have told you were wrong and I have given you
an example why. But today is the day you need to learn this important lesson."
Mother looked down
at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with tears. Mother said,
"My dear, the most important body part is your shoulder."
I asked, "Is
it because it holds up my head?"
Mother replied,
"No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when
they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life, my dear son. I
only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will always have a
shoulder to cry on when you need it."
Then and there I
knew the most important body part is not a selfish one. It is sympathetic to
the pain of others. People will forget what you said... People will forget what
you did... But people will NEVER forget
how you made them feel.
True or not, the
story makes you stop and think. Be blessed. Be a blessing. Get your shoulder
ready.
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